Thoughtful Valentine’s Rituals for Every Way We Love

Valentine’s Day doesn’t look the same for everyone. For some, it’s romance. For others, it’s comfort, connection, or quiet care woven into everyday life.

That’s where love languages come in. They remind us that love isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s expressed and received in deeply personal ways through words, actions, presence, touch, and thoughtful gestures.

This Valentine’s Day, we’re celebrating the five love languages with simple rituals and intentionally curated Plant Therapy bundles designed to help you show love in the way that feels most natural, whether that love is for a partner, a friend, family, or yourself.

Words of Affirmation

Love that’s felt through encouragement, reassurance, and kind words

For those who resonate with Words of Affirmation, love lives in language. It’s spoken encouragement, gentle reminders, and the quiet phrases we repeat to ourselves when no one else is listening.

Scent can deepen this practice by pairing intention with aroma. When a specific scent is consistently linked to affirming words, it becomes a sensory cue that helps reinforce belief and shift mindset. 

Blends that support self-expression, compassion, and connection help affirmations feel less like words you’re trying to believe and more like truths you’re learning to embody.

Words of Affirmation Bundle includes:

• True Expression Roll-On
  
  
• Loving Compassion Roll-On
  
  
• Higher Connection Roll-On

Acts of Service

Love that’s shown through action, care, and showing up

For those who feel most loved through Acts of Service, love lives in the details. It’s the quiet work done behind the scenes that makes life feel lighter and more supported.

Everyday tasks become meaningful expressions of care when they’re done with intention. Wiping down counters, refreshing shared spaces, and tending to the small messes that pile up throughout the day all send the same message: someone took the time to make things easier.

Acts of Service Bundle includes:

• Defender Multi-Surface Cleaner
  
  
• Glass Spray Bottle
  
  
• Deodorizing Powder
  

Quality Time

Love that’s felt through presence and shared moments

Quality Time isn’t about doing more. It’s about being fully present in the moments you already have. Unrushed conversations, shared routines, and creative moments that invite connection.

DIY rituals are a natural way to slow down together. Mixing your own blends or creating something by hand encourages collaboration and presence without pressure. A gentle carrier oil creates the foundation, while familiar essential oils allow for personalization and creativity. 

These moments don’t need to be elaborate. They just need intention.

Quality Time DIY Bundle includes:

• Fractionated Coconut Oil (4 oz)
  
  
• Lemon, Lavender, and Peppermint Essential Oil Set
  
  
• Dilution Chart Magnet
  
  

Physical Touch

Love that’s felt through closeness, comfort, and shared presence

For those who resonate with Physical Touch, love is often felt in the quiet moments where words aren’t needed. It’s closeness, warmth, and the reassurance of simply being near one another.

Intimacy doesn’t have to be bold to be meaningful. Sometimes it’s a lingering kiss before the day begins, brushing past each other in the kitchen, or slowing down together at the end of a long day.

Physical touch is love expressed without words. It’s comfort, connection, and choosing to stay close.

Physical Touch Bundle includes:

• Wild Strawberry Lip Balm
  
  
• Sensual Essential Oil Roll-On
  
  
• Near Perfection Body Oil
  
  

Receiving Gifts

Love that’s felt through thoughtful, meaningful gestures

For those who resonate with Receiving Gifts, love is found in the intention behind the gesture. It’s not about excess, but about choosing something that feels personal, useful, and considered.

The most meaningful gifts are the ones that become part of everyday life. A facial oil roll-on that supports a simple skincare ritual, a hair spray designed to refresh and nurture, or the freedom to choose something meaningful all offer more than a moment of excitement. They offer continuity.

Each use becomes a quiet reminder that someone cared enough to choose with intention.

Receiving Gifts Bundle includes:

• Frankincense & Argan Facial Oil Roll-On
  
  
• Rosemary & Rice Water Hair Spray
  
  
• $10 Gift Card
  
  

Love, Your Way

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to follow a script. It can be quiet. It can be cozy. It can be simple.

Whether you’re celebrating a partner, a friend, your family, or yourself, the most meaningful expressions of love are the ones that feel true to you.

Because love isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what matters most.

Love looks different for everyone. 

Tell us in the comments which love language feels most like you or which one you’re leaning into this season. Your answer might inspire someone else, too.